Apr 15, 2012

Racism - a question for all mankind

So there is this big controversy about Jessica Sanchez on American Idol and I am sure along with many other fans and people who watch the show, everyone has an opinion on the matter.

My first thought upon watching the shocking reveal of the results show was that everyone thought Jessica would be safe because she has had such a consistent season overall in her performances, that people simply voted for their other idols in hopes that they instead would stay. This resulted in Jessica having the lowest number of votes - not because people didn't like her, but because most took for granted that she would be safe. That is my honest opinion and what I think really happen.

However, there have been so many remarks about this incident and its relation to racism. I think the people who are making these comments see it from two aspects of what they interpret racism to be #1- actual race and ethnicity and #2 - looks. And in the case of Ms Sanchez, she falls into both categories in that she is not 'white' and she definitely looks 'asian'. I can definitely see how easy it is to assume that the american public or voters are biased towards white blond looking girls like Taylor Swift, but I really do not believe this was the case here. I think a lot of other factors come into play like likeability and showmanship.

Being someone who has had some exposure to the country, its people and the way they live, it is extremely difficult for me to buy into the argument that americans are racist. In all my experience with them, never have I once felt this way - not in school, not amongst friends, teachers, not even with boys. Everyone in general are so open, so accepting, so willing to accept each others differences. It is a society that thrives because of its very diverse community and are willing to see the best that every culture and every different personality brings.

While surfing the Americon Idol website, I came across a post that really sums up how I feel and I completely agree with this poster 100%. She/He seems to be writing to people who do not live in America and probably have never had the chance to be exposed to the American culture and way of living at least where ethnic differences and culture are concerned.

For ease of reading I have paragraphed the post although originally it was posted as just one long paragrah:-

"In all seriousness, what's funny about all these racist remarks is that I am an American, and I had no idea Jessica (although it was obvious her heritage was different than mine) was of "Pinoy" ethnicity until around the 3rd or 4th week after the live shows started and I took my first look of the season on this forum. I just recently learned that her father is a Mexican-American from Texas (my home state), and her mother is, of course, "Pinoy". I've loved her voice since the first time I ever heard her; which was on the first live show and have believed all along that she might well be the one to win this season; even though she's not my favorite as I am in my 50's and prefer a different genre of music and vocal style than that of which Jessica will probably pursue in her career.

Americans as a whole are also very diverse in their preferences in music. However, the most popular singers are either rap, R&B, or pop in the younger generation, and the young girls who love whoever they think are the cutest boys (no matter the color of their skin nor their ethnicity I might add) and country/country rock fans are the ones who do the vast majority of voting on AI; and it has been especially hard to overcome that in all these years. Also, IMO, the producers of AI have everything to do with the outcome of this show. In any case, I wish Jessica absolutely the best no matter what and am sure I will see her on my television for years to come as she will more-than-likely have a very long and successful career.

Americans are made up of so many different ethnicities you have absolutely no idea. If ethnicity was truly such a racial issue here, we'd probably be in an unending war within our borders. None of us were Americans until our fore-fathers came over here and ultimately stole this country from the Native Americans. THEY are the only "true pure" (if that's what you want to call it) Americans. People from all over the world come to America to benefit from what our country has to offer them. We welcome them with open arms, and this is what we get? Convenience stores on almost every corner of America are now owned by Arab/Arab-Americans. We give work to Mexican-Americans who are trying to better their lives also. We work with all these different ethnicities, we go to school with them, our children go to school with them, and one day my grand-children will go to school with them. Many are BORN American; just as Jessica was, and future generations will all, of course be naturalized American citizens just as Jessica is. We neither like nor dislike ALL of them; just as Americans neither like nor dislike a whole lot of other Americans, but my own personal experience with people of your ethnicity has actually been a very positive one.

I was a Registered Nurse for over 25 years and had the pleasure of working with many "Pinoy" nurses, who I had the utmost respect for and who I enjoyed working with very, very much. I felt all of them to be very kind, gentle, compassionate, easy-going, and just down-right SUPER human beings based on that experience, so it's actually so very disappointing for me to see so many racist comments on this forum and can only assume that YOU must certainly be the ones who are racists for even making them. I didn't raise my children to think nor act this way, and I know for certain that people of different ethnic origins does not matter to my sons as long as they are decent human beings.

As I said though, I am in my 50's and just happen to prefer a different style of music now, and no matter what each of our individual opinions are, I think maybe everyone making these racist remarks must surely be very naive about what really goes on with American television and the music industry and they either just need grow up or shut up. Period! "

I especially liked the part where she pointed out that americans are made up of so many ethnicities and that most of the people there have come from elsewhere and that the native americans are the true pure americans if people want to really focus on that. What she was trying to say is that the vast majority of americans are aware that everyone in that country was technically an immigrant from almost every part of the world imaginable. And although america has battled slavery - mostly between the white and black folk, they have overcome it and the america today is a lot more liberal and open minded than the america of yesteryears.

Racism and biasness exist everywhere, and even more so here in Asia with the Indians having their casts and the Malays insisting on superiority and special rights and the Punjabis only insisting on marriage within their community and the Chinese discriminating against people who aren't fair and the list just goes on and on. Who are we to call the americans biased? Americahas given plenty of opportunity to people of all racist from all parts of the world to be a part of their world and most recently a very colored man was voted into Presidency. Is this not demonstrative enough of a nation tolerant and accepting of a person no matter where they are from?

The next time we pass a comment on another being racist we should take a good hard look at ourselves, who we vote into power, what we stand for, what our children are taught in schools, Why do malay students riot when the goverment want to open up places for students of other races in universities, why indian and chinese communities still insist on their own schools and so on. So we are a far far cry from what america has achieved and we are far far behind in terms of being ready to give equal opportunity to ALL people regardless of race, religion and ethniticity. So we should basically really just shut up.

Here's a video of Jessica singing Stuttering. For those of you who haven't watched it, you can decide for yourself if this girl is indeed talented or not, and if what Randy said - "One of the best singers in America" is true.

Apr 8, 2012

Manicure Moment

Completely ripped this post of another site, but giving it credit here

We thought this was an excellent post and can't wait to try this if and when we manage to grow our nails back again! It has been extremely short for a very long time :)


Photo: Courtesy of Michelle Mismas for All Lacquered Up/MTV

Have you ever had one of those days where you just can’t decide on what nail color to wear? We do, ALL THE TIME. But, rather than play eeny-meeny-miney-mo with polish, we discovered a great way to wear multiple colors at once that's both fun and ultra-chic: TheGradation Manicure. This type of mani utilizes five nail polishes from the same color family, worn in a gradient across the hand from light to dark. The bonus is that you can make it as subtle or dramatic as you desire (so it won't look too juvenile), and the best part is that you really can’t mess it up. The key is to make sure you're pairing colors that work together.

GET THE LOOK ...

1. Choose a color family.


2. Compliment your skin tone by choosing warm or cool tone shades from that family. For example, mixing warm yellow based greens with cool blue-based greens won’t be as harmonious.


3. Select the lightest and darkest shade and mix and match the middle three until the range is pleasing to your eye.


4. Polish each nail a different color with the lightest color on one end and the darkest on the other.

Looking for Gradation Manicure inspiration? Check out some of our favorite color combinations below: Turquoise, taupe, pink, and orange.

TURQUOISE



Turquoise is one of the “it” colors this summer and teal will be a big hit come fall. So, in this pre-fall season, bridge the gap with a gradation between the two. Polishes used (from thumb to pinkie): OPI Ski Teal We Drop ($8); China Glaze Shower Together ($5); Sally Hansen Complete Salon Manicure Fairy Teal ($8); China Glaze Flyin' High ($8); China Glaze For Audrey ($5).

TAUPE



Taupe is the new neutral! Plus, it's work- and school-friendly. One of the hottest colors right now is Chanel's Paradoxal hue because it features flash of purple shimmer, so we've incorporated the shade into this sample gradation. Polishes used (from thumb to pinkie):Chanel Paradoxal ($23); Sephora by OPI Metro Chic ($9); Color Club High Society ($4); Rescue Beauty Lounge Jane ($18); Essie Body Language ($7).

PINK



Pink is feminine, fun, and abundant in all of our nail color wardrobes. It’s such a staple that it’s become seasonless. Polishes used (from thumb to pinkie): OPI Flashbulb Fuchsia ($7);OPI La Paz-itively Hot ($8); Zoya Lo ($7); China Glaze Sugar High ($7); Zoya Barbie ($7).

ORANGE



Orange continues to rage on as a favorite hue for summer and it transitions so well into fall and Halloween. Starting with a sweet, soft peach working our way past tangerine and ending with a fiery red-orange these colors will pop against a faux-glow. Polishes used (from thumb to pinkie): China Glaze Peachy Keen ($7); Zoya Jancyn ($7); Nicole by OPI Fresh Squeezed ($8); Finger Paints Tangerine Tint ($5); OPI On The Same Paige ($7).

+ Would you try this look? Go ahead, treat your nails like the built-in, affordable accessories they are!

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Michelle Mismas is the editor of All Lacquered Up, a fun, comprehensive blog about nail polish. To see more nail polish ideas and tips, check out AllLacqueredUp.com and follow Michelle on Twitter @alllacqueredup!


Apr 4, 2012

Private Lives Exposed - Is that a crime?

In view of the recent headlines again concerning Edison Chen, I decided to revisit the whole scandal that was the talk of Asia in 2008. For those of you who do not follow HK celebrity news or perhaps are in your own Drama Minggu Ini and Bollywood World, Edison Chen is a HK singer/actor who was involved in a scandal involving leaked photos of various women he had been with, posing in many semi-nude, nude photographs taken by him. These photos were taken during Edison's relationships with each of the female stars who were also celebrities themselves. The three main ones mentioned were Gillian Chung, Cecillia Cheung and Bobo Chan.

I managed to see most of the photos before they were taken off the internet. The photos were circulated also by email and really was widespread. I think everyone saw them, and boy were they nasty!

However, I never really felt sorry for any of the girls. Although the public was in shock and awe and channeled most of their anger on Edison, I think a girl is equally responsible of knowing the implications of a sex tape or photo taken by a boyfriend and where it could lead to. Accidents happen, and we need to take precaution. The point was that they claimed Edison did not do everything he could to protect the girls from exposure. He claims otherwise.

In an interview with Talk Asia 1 year after the scandal, Edison revealed that the photos were taken prior to 2004 whereas the scandal broke out 4 years later, in 2008. By that time he was in as serious relationship and he had informed his gf of his past and things he had done and she had asked him to delete the photos which he did. He said he had deleted them and emptied his trash can on his laptop and sometime later his laptop broke down and he had asked his assistant to take it to a computer shop for repair. The technician restored his hard drive and retrieved all the memory on it including the raunchy photos which were then shared and posted on the internet.

If you ask me, Edison was as much a victim as where the girls in the 1300 photos that were leaked of which Edison said there was 'a little more' that that. :0

Sure, the thought goes through your head that he must be a pervert, slightly sex crazed, has a fetish for women in uniform and such, but then, can we all really genuinely say that is so sick and abnormal? There are many things people do in their private lives which are nobody's business but their own. Women are also as sexual and sometimes more so then men. These girls were NOT innocent, they had a relationship with Edison and they allowed him to take photos of them, playing along and posing for those photos as well. Wild? Sure. Uncommon? Absolutely not.

For the benefit of all, here are the videos on YouTube of what Edison had to say on TalkAsia about that 2008 scandal. Here he comes across as sincere, honest and definitely well-spoken.





However, what's this? New news about a new scandal involving 16 year old model Cammi Tse whom Edison dated for 3 months. She lost her mobile phone and from the phone was retrieved photos of them kissing though no raunchy sex photos were seen. Read and see those photos here and here.


Mar 30, 2012

Think Pink!

Where are the Pinks? Bring them on! We are so addicted to Pink these days. Having transitioned from a sudden fever for blue, Pink seems to be THE color of the season. The flavour of the month which may just keep on pink-in'!

We are seeing everything Pink...but most definitely Pink bags! And the Pink we mean is a nice deep Pink Sorbet or Fuschia :D
And don't we LOVE Mr Pink himself with his smooth grooves and ultra sleek voice LOL!
Oh we have a feeling this Pink fixation is going to last. Check out this beautiful table layout from Martha Stewart weddings:
And last but definitely not least, would you go so far as to turn your dog Pink? We hope not!! LOL

Oct 3, 2011

Pretty Girl Rock

Dedicated to all my beautiful girl friends out there :)

Oct 2, 2011

Rotterdam

Here are some pictures of my trip to Rotterdam in The Netherlands to visit my dear friend Nicki and her lovely new born baby girl Rae who is now my god daugther :)

My home in Rotterdam for 3 weeks :D
Doggies clearly rule :P

Next are photos of Den Haag where I walked around for a couple of hours.


Paris


Once again I have been so bad at updating this blog. Many months have passed since my last update in June and so much has happened since. I guess I can never complain that life is boring because something always happens, even if it is something bad. When I discovered a spur in my left foot in June during my stay in Paris, it was such a bummer because it meant I did not get to go sight seeing both in Paris and London which was my next stop. Taking the train from Paris was no small feat. I was literally in cold sweat as I struggled with my crutches up the escalators with my bags and the long long long walk to the train. Let me tell you I almost missed the train! A kind french guy helped me push the big luggage bag otherwise I think I would not have made it. To the kind soul, thank you so very very much! A detailed account of this experience can be found here and below are the photos I neglected to upload then, so am doing it now :)

Despite all the troubles, I still managed to pose for this photo.
Oh and this one too...
Hehe..

And of course, a trip to Chanel (even on crutches) is a must! This is the boutique on Avenue Montagne.

And I am sure everyone wants to see other pictures of Paris. I didn't take many, but here are the few I have.
Gare du Nod Train Station - Paris


One of the cafes I had lunch in.

Stayed in The Monte Carlo Hotel with the kitty cat logo.

The room was small but adequate. It costs me 130euro per night. Expensive, but everything is expensive there.
This last pic is the view from my room.

I thought the location was convenient. It's walking distance from Printemps and Gallerie Lafayette.

No doubt my trip was short, but it was an experience to remember. I would definitely like to go again. Didn't take any or much pictures of London either. Maybe next time.